Whether you are sailing on Bliss Cruise or another adults only lifestyle charter, this guide pulls together everything we have learned, forgotten, borrowed, and sworn never to forget again. Even seasoned cruisers can make rookie mistakes.
The only true rule is simple. Get yourself on the ship. Everything else can be borrowed, bought, or creatively improvised.
Before outfits. Before toys. Before theme night strategy.
Documents first.
Here is what belongs at the very top of your pile:
• Passport, passport card, or birth certificate
• Credit cards, cash, insurance cards
• Cruise luggage tags
• Seapass wristband or zip pouch
Closed loop cruise? Yes, technically you may not need a passport as a US citizen. Should you still bring one? Absolutely. If you get left behind in port, you will be very grateful you did.
Pro tip. Put your passport in your carry on the night before you leave. Not in a drawer. Not on the counter. In the bag.
Cruise cabins are compact. Lifestyle cruise cabins are compact with extra accessories.
Here is how to stay organized and sane:
• Heavy duty magnetic towel hooks
• Magnetic hooks and door baskets
• Over the door shoe rack
• Magnetic white board and dry erase markers
• Laundry bag
• Rechargeable magnetic night light
• Battery operated fairy lights
• Portable speaker
Because cabin walls are metal, magnets are your best friend. Hooks hold towels, robes, bags, costumes, lanyards, and sometimes dignity.
White boards are underrated. They are perfect for leaving playful messages, party invites, or letting friends know which deck you are on.
This deserves its own category. Do not treat this like an afterthought:
• Lube
• Condoms, latex and non latex, all sizes
• Body wipes
• Mints
• Sex toy cleaner
• Boric acid
• Viagra
• Vibrators and toys
• Waterproof squirt blanket
• Robes
Lifestyle cruises are about connection and fun, but health and consent come first. Pack more condoms than you think you need. Bring your preferred brands. Bring your preferred lube. Do not rely on limited onboard options.
Waterproof blanket. Trust us on this one.
Sun. Salt. Champagne. Late nights. Be proactive!
• Dramamine
• Zofran
• Transderm Scop patches
• Seasick bands
• Ginger chews
• Vitamin C, Vitamin D, Zinc
• Immune support multi vitamin
• Emergen C
• Ibuprofen
• Liquid IV
• Aloe
• All prescription medications
If you have never cruised before, talk to your doctor about motion sickness prevention. It is much easier to prevent seasickness than to fix it once it starts.
Pack enough prescriptions for extra days in case flights are delayed. Lifestyle cruises are not the place to realize you packed exactly the right amount and nothing more.
And yes, hangover support counts as health care.
Do not underestimate the daytime vibe. Bliss is not just night parties.
• Swimsuits
• Beach bag
• Sunglasses
• Hats
• Sunscreen and SPF lip balm
• 20 ounce tumblers
• Beer coozies
• Towel bands or holders
Pack one swimsuit in your carry on so you can head straight to the pool when you board. First drink, first cheers, first group photo.
Tumblers and coozies are lifesavers for keeping drinks cold during long afternoons in the sun.
Your phone will be your camera, your communicator, and possibly your playlist DJ.
• Cell phones and chargers
• Chargers for toys
• Portable power bank
• Travel power adapter
• Apple AirTags for luggage
• Portable speaker
Download your playlists in advance. Ship WiFi can be unpredictable. Nothing kills a vibe like buffering.
Lifestyle (swinger) cruises are known for themed parties. Planning ahead makes it more fun and less stressful.
Pack:
• Theme outfits
• Accessories
• Costumes you feel confident in
You do not need to spend a fortune. Confidence beats couture every time. The best outfits are the ones you feel amazing in.
Connection is the heart of these cruises.
• Slut cards
• Door magnets and decorations
Couples cards make introductions easy. Add your names, room number if comfortable, and social handles.
Door decorations help friends find you and make your hallway more fun.
The goal is simple. Get on the ship prepared enough that you can relax and have fun. Everything else is bonus.
Want to make this easy?
Download our 2-page Printable Swinger Cruise Packing List and check things off as you go. Print it. Screenshot it. Save it to your phone.send it to your partner.
Future you will be very grateful you did.
Turning Bucket Lists Into Boarding Passes
For more than 15 years, I’ve been helping travelers turn dream vacations into unforgettable memories. From hosting adults only cruises and group trips to exploring six of the world’s seven continents, I’ve experienced many of the destinations I recommend firsthand. Antarctica is the only one still on my bucket list.
When I’m not planning incredible getaways, you’ll usually find me enjoying South Florida with my family, scuba diving, exploring new places, or dreaming about the next adventure. My husband and I were even married underwater, so it’s safe to say travel and the ocean are a big part of who I am. My favorite part of this job is helping clients experience those unforgettable wow moments that become memories for a lifetime.
Your Vacation Matchmaker
One Bliss Cruise changed everything.
I’ve been cruising my entire life, but one Bliss Cruise introduced me to an incredible community that completely changed my trajectory. Now, I love helping others discover that same unforgettable experience.
You’ll usually find me on the dance floor. I’m a social butterfly at heart and have earned the reputation as the unofficial matchmaker, bringing couples together, turning strangers into lifelong friends, and helping everyone feel like they belong.
I can’t wait to help you find your perfect getaway and welcome you into the amazing community that made me feel at home from day one.
Your Story Starts Here
I’ve spent more than 15 years helping trade everyday stress for sunshine, ocean views, and unforgettable memories. I’m the person who obsesses over the little details so you don’t have to. Finding the perfect room, the perfect resort, or that hidden gem that makes you say, “How did you know about this?” is my favorite part of the job.
Lifestyle travel has a special place in my heart because it’s about so much more than the destination. It’s about relaxing, reconnecting, making new friends, and being completely yourself. My husband and I love exploring these cruises and resorts together, so when I make a recommendation, it’s based on firsthand experience.
Whether you’re planning your very first lifestyle vacation or you’re already part of the community, I’ll make sure every detail is handled with care, discretion, and lots of excitement for the adventure ahead.
Helping you find your happy place
I’ve been turning vacation dreams into reality since right after high school, took a brief detour while life happened, and happily found my way back to the travel industry in 2014. After helping travelers from our Texas office, I traded cowboy boots for flip flops and returned to Florida to be closer to family. These days, nothing makes me happier than helping people discover the kind of vacation they’ll still be talking about long after they unpack.
The overwater bungalows at Palafitos at Maroma Beach will always have my heart, while Couples Sans Souci in Ocho Rios is one of my favorite places to completely unwind. Having personally experienced many of the resorts we offer, I can help you understand the little differences that don’t always show up in a brochure but can make all the difference in your vacation.
When I’m not planning incredible getaways, you’ll probably find me clipping into a Peloton ride, taking Molly, my spirited Jack Russell, for a walk, spending time with my grandbabies, or enjoying a relaxing day at the beach. Those simple moments remind me exactly why vacations matter so much. They give us time to reconnect, recharge, and make memories with the people we love.
I can’t wait to help you find your next favorite destination.
The calm behind the storm
Every great vacation needs someone behind the scenes making sure all the pieces come together, and that’s where I come in! As Castaways Travel’s Chief Chaos Coordinator, I keep the wheels turning so our travelers can focus on making memories. Whether it’s organizing group details, solving last minute challenges, or keeping our Pleasure Planners on track, I thrive on turning organized chaos into unforgettable vacations.
I found my passion for travel in 2019 after spending decades in specialty and luxury retail, and I’ve never looked back. My favorite part of what I do is helping create experiences where people can truly relax, reconnect, and be themselves, whether that’s on a lifestyle cruise, at an adults only resort, or somewhere completely off the beaten path.
When I’m not keeping the Castaways crew sailing smoothly, you’ll probably find me cheering on my son at a baseball tournament, visiting my Aggie at Texas A&M, or dreaming up the next adventure. After all, behind every unforgettable vacation is just a little organized chaos, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
If it floats, chances are I’ve been on it.
I’ve spent more than 30 years helping people find their happy place, and if it floats, chances are I’ve been on it. As the second-generation owner of Castaways Travel, I grew up in this business and couldn’t imagine doing anything else.
Desire and Bliss Cruises will always have a special place in my heart because they bring together amazing people, unforgettable experiences, and friendships that last long after the cruise is over.
When I’m not planning clothing optional vacations, I’m probably giving belly rubs to Lilly, my four-legged first mate, dreaming about my next cruise, or convincing someone that “just one more vacation” is always the best idea.
My favorite part of this job is watching people step away from everyday life, reconnect with each other, and discover a community where they can truly be themselves. Nothing makes me happier than welcoming clients back year after year because, once you’re part of the Castaways family, you’re family for life.
